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The First Date part 3


Whether or not you take a ‘wait and see’ approach, you must have some ideas about what you desire, or have certain preferences
 
The extent to which your date shows any of the traits that you prefer can set the tone for future dates, or be an indicator of what potential the date has to become a part of your life
Though important, expectation and anticipation about your first date has to be managed so that it doesn’t have a harmful or negative effect 

This can happen if you are so filled and overwhelmed by what your are thinking – what you are expecting and anticipating – that you expect exactly that to happen
You would then fail to see and to appreciate the true personality of your date
If that happens, then the purpose of going on a date will have been futile and useless
For the first date, it’s best if you simply ensure that the person meets certain of your basic expectations on qualities such as having acceptable behavior, being courteous, mannerly, and exhibiting appropriate behavior and mannerisms in public
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While it will therefore be virtually impossible for you to not have a high level of anticipation about your first date, you have to make sure it is managed so that it doesn’t become overwhelming and prevents you from enjoying the moment and discovering aspects of your date’s true personality.
You therefore don’t want to have so much anticipation and expectation that it obscures the purpose of your first date.



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